Conversations as the Landscape Changes

Come in,

Put your feet up,

Sorry about the mess 

I’ve been so distracted with-


A vague gesture met by a vacant stare, a

Smile, Distracted by what? It’s been a while since we did this

You know, I reply

Turn on the oven for dinner, the shootings


The pain 

The years of it boiling over 

The dead Americans and

The tiny men in bulletproof vests who shoot them


The people fighting for their lives 

Knowing it just hasn’t reached here yet 

Knowing it’s not outside yet 


Oh, she replies

Distant eyes, I try not to pay too much attention

I’ve been so focused on the kids

I’ve been so focused on my life


We have to put the mask on ourselves first, right?

Rest, relax, give yourself some grace 

It’s negative twenty and the blinds are closed 

Nothing out there but ICE, but ice


People falling like snowflakes from the plane falling from the sky

People who flew out the open door, into the wind, away

Some of us have broken curtains 

Some of us can’t stop looking 


How’s work?

The safest topic

The only thing we’re both still doing 

I got a good bonus. I don’t like going anymore. But the job market, you know? The insurance. 


Nodding, thinking, 

About a little boy with a spiderman backpack alone in Texas where he doesn’t live 

Will you still go to Florida this year? 

A shrug, an admittance that the world isn’t what it used to be 


We’re saving,

We both sip the coffee, elbows on the table 

For what?

The tightening of lips, lines under the eyes that didn’t used to be there 


A shrug,

Like its safer this way 

Like our phones might tell Them that we’re not spending money on purpose 

Like it might shatter the glass to admit we don’t know what’s coming 


I have to get the kids,

Schools out because of all the threats 

It was good to see you

We should do this again


A hug that feels like hugging empty air for

Both of us 


Drive safe,

I hope your car battery still works today 

I hope everyone we love gets home safe, too

I wave you down a road we don’t walk together anymore


Both of us just surviving